7 Things I Learned on My First Cruise Ship

[Jason 411]

Joined by Guy Fieri, Queen Latifah, and more pieces of shrimp than I knew what to do with, I slept aboard a giant boat for the first time in my life. The experience was illuminating. 

I’ve already lied to you, and the story hasn’t even begun. I may have, technically, been on a cruise before. In 2013, I packed my things and snuck onto a small overnight ferry leaving Italy for Croatia, where I lived for the next several months, working my way into the social circles of elderly radish farmers. But was that a cruise? I don’t think so, at least not in the modern sense. (There was no food on board, and I slept pigeon-pose in a folding chair.)  

Cruises, as we know them today, are about leisure and spectacle—not just getting from point A to point B, or fleeing one country for another.

"You just go on board and are transported to a floating bizarro world, and wifi is expensive and almost never works, so you're forced to unplug," said PEOPLE food editor Shay Spence, a man who is obsessed with cruises (and goes on several a year.) "There's a serious cheesiness factor that you have to just lean into and accept."

I’d never stepped foot aboard a vacation cruise boat, let alone one with a Dr. Seuss-themed water park, a city's worth of themed dining concepts, terrifying sky rides where you bike through the air, and celebrity appearances, so when I was invited on the Carnival Horizon, a brand-new boat, for a night docked on the Hudson River, I couldn't turn it down.

But I was nervous. 

Would I get sick from the rocking? Do boats that big rock? Would the food be horrible? Would the live entertainment make me uncomfortable, or worse, would I be asked to participate? And besides, where do they put all the poop? 

After a whirlwind 16 hours aboard, I'm sharing with you what I learned about the American cruise phenomenon.

 

1. The toilets flush like airplane toilets.

Looking back, I feel like this should have been obvious, but I didn't expect it at all. The flush sounds like you're being zapped to another portal. 

 

2. Guy Fieri's barbecue is actually pretty good. 

 

One of the many dining options aboard the Carnival Horizon is Fieri's Smokehouse Brewhouse. The night I was there, the Food Network star was also there, too, rocking a camo tee and mingling with fans. And you know what? The 'cue was excellent, as were the sides: broccoli salad, super-tender ribs, pecan pie, beans, everything. The only thing I hated was the out-of-season corn cobs, but it was my fault for trying to eat an unadulterated vegetable, and I'll never make that mistake again. 

Having dined at Guy's American Kitchen & Bar in Times Square once before—backstory: I was texting with a "comedian" and he suggested we go, and I thought it was a bit, I so played along, but then, cut to the next scene, I'm eating cloyingly sweet chicken wings until it's polite to leave—I had zero expectations, but his food was some of the best I ate on the boat. His burgers—at Guy's Burger Bar, by one of the many pools, couldn't tell you where—weren't bad, either. 

 

3. A lot of people try to talk to you.

One of my biggest fears about cruises had been founded: People want to mingle and make friends.

At dinner, there were only a limited amount of tables for two, so most people were seated with other families and friend groups and couples, giving you no choice but to make conversation, which is fine, but also exhausting, and isn't the point of vacation recusing yourself from the relentless demands of society?

 

4. You can't feel the boat move. 

People had told me this, but I didn't believe them, but it's true; you really can't. While the Cruise Horizon wasn't going anywhere, I at least expected to feel the waves beneath us, and vomit accordingly. But this was not the case. 

 

4. Queen Latifah is a good sport. 

To celebrate the ship naming and to raise money for St. Jude's Children's Hospital, Latifah "competed" in a Lip Sync Battle against the Philadelphia Eagles' Jake Elliott, which apparently will roll out as an entertainment feature on all Carnival cruises (though sans celebrities.) 

Much to my chagrin, there was quite a bit of audience participation: cheering, call-and-reponse chants, and a little girl was brought up on stage. This, I'm told, is typical for cruise entertainment. It's not my favorite, but, like Queen Latifah, I put on a brave face and gave it my all. 

 

5. I should have brought something nicer to wear, or at least a back-up outfit for when the rib sauce ruined my shirt. 

People dress up! Different areas require different levels of formality. For dinner, people slipped into evening gowns, prom dresses, and shoes that weren't construction boots, so I felt somewhat out-of-place. (Fieri, of course, got a pass.)

 

6. Navigation is incredibly complex. 

These boats are very large and confusing, but that must be the appeal: You can be on them for eight nights and still discover new places/crew-only storage rooms you don't realize you're in until someone asks you to leave. 

 

7. Being in a pool while on the sea is one of the best feelings in the world. 

Floating in a hot tub, sipping a Miami Vice out of a plastic cup while fireworks lit up the Jersey skyline, was pretty damn magical. 

By Maria Yagoda, Food & Wine
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[Jan115 1,030]

I can relate somewhat to the author’s “first” experiences - the flushing toilets and the those occasions when socializing is called for. What was missing from her account was the first-timer WOW factor when boarding a ship for the very first time. Then again, 16 hours on a ship docked in port doesn’t really have the thrill of a multi-day voyage at sea.

I hope she had the opportunity since that moment in 2013 to board another cruise ship - one actually cruising!?

[Shari2 399]

Me too, Jan...the first time you flush the toilets it does scare you a bit...LOL  Also, where is the WOW factor, and the I'm going to totally love this feeling for cruising.  You do definitely have to get out to sea though. Also...the big boats are called ships...LOL  Hope she gets a chance to go on a wonderful cruise to Hawaii or somewhere that she will really get the whole feeling of cruising.  And the great feeling of "socializing" meeting some wonderful people that may actually be friends forever.

[AndiD 182]

I concur with you both, Jan and Shari.  I must say that we usually do choose the flexible dining option now, and ask for a table for 2 (unless we have known fabulous dinner partners like Jan and Dave!)  We usually do end up close enough to the next tables that conversation is inevitably shared.  But I must say, some of those encounters have created many a topic of conversation and memories down the road, lol!  We still laugh about some of our table mates back when you had set seating, as well as some of our adjacent dinner companions...whoo hee!  ?

[Shari2 399]

Definitely nice to have a table for two once in awhile, or anytime.  I do remember some wonderful people we met, and dined with also.  Still are friends with some of them.  There is so  much to cruising.  My former SIL's husband once said he would be bored on a cruise.  Marc and I just laughed...and said, "just wait for our Panama Canal cruise."  They went with us and loved it...and they also came with us on the Hawaii cruise.  So, I think he did not find it boring...LOL  They both loved it, and we loved having them with us.

[ExpatCruise 0]

The thing I learned on my first cruise was I liked cruise ships.  While I see how  a table for two can be a wanted thing, most of the time I turn them down (don't tell my wife).  I request a larger table as a effort to bring my wife out of her shell.  Sometimes it works, but not always. I also enjoy talking to other people and finding new information about things. Yes a 2 top is nice but a big table can also be nice on a cruise.